Submitted by Laurel Smith Doggett September 2, 2015 - 9:12am Great tip to start questions with "Did you do your best to.... " Love the way this shifts out victimhood and into accountabiity.Category: Behavior Change Comments Triggers Permalink Submitted by Alex Couley November 3, 2015 - 6:57pm I've taken the lazy route and got the book as an audio version. About halfway through it but likewise I really liked that concept of changing engagement levels through the way the question is asked. There's a few gems so far. Alex Did you......? Permalink Submitted by Linda Szetoo September 12, 2017 - 12:59pm I wonder if this is posted to the client or to the coach? Did you... closed or open ended question? Trigger - the more we are aware of our feelings and thoughts from the trigger the more we can trap our actions.